This post is a summary of the insights and guidelines from an interview with Adam Grant on the Hidden Brain podcast. Adam talks about his book Originals. The discussion focuses on innovators and the challenges they face. He describes what makes an original, how parents can nurture originality in their children, and the potential downsides of non-conformity.
I’m experimenting with learning by listening instead of reading (which I think is my default mode). I had to listen to the podcast twice to distill the insights and guidelines. In this case I noticed more insights than guidelines. I’ll read the book in the future and see if I find more guidelines.
Here are the key insights I gleaned from the conversation:
When helping someone develop, focus on values more than rules because that will enable them to think for themselves rather than learn to follow.
Grant mentions a study of architects and his own family. The specific values he mentions are:
When the architects grew up they “had a very clear set of guiding principles”. Children from families that were more focussed on rules learned to follow and accept the status quo.
In his own family when Grant finds himself accused of making a rule, he tries to find the value behind the rule. For example, when he asks his kids to stay at the dinner table until everyone is finished, he emphasizes respect and the value of having everyone to share a family meal.
Helping someone develop, either a child, student, a work colleague or indeed yourself.
Try to identify and explain the value behind the rule. Explain why it’s important.
A focus on values gives people a clear set of guiding principles, helps them think for themselves and be more innovative.
The words value, rule, principle and guideline can have a number of meanings.
In an article about the difference between principles and values, Keith Norris has a different interpretation:
… principles are rules or laws that are permanent, unchanging, and universal in nature. Values are internal and subjective, and they may change over time.
Norris refers to Stephen Covey’s book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”. He defines values as:
… beliefs and opinions that people hold regarding specific issues or ideas, and are ultimately internal, subjective, and malleable.
He recommends:
If you’re looking to create a timeless sense of purpose and to shape the overall mission of your life, then you should use principles. Establishing a set of principles creates a compass to which you can refer whenever something is in doubt or you need to take a stand or evaluate any particular opportunity, behavior, or situation.
To me it seems Norris/Covey’s principles are similar to Grant’s values and the concept of guideline we’re using in this blog.
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May 24, 2020
Guidelines